12 Step Blog, Readings or quotes
| 12 Step Blog, Readings or quotes |
| Feel free to post any of this weeks readings or spiritual quotes you connect with in the comment section. Monday 4th January through to Sunday 10th January. |
| 12 Step Blog, Readings or quotes |
| Feel free to post any of this weeks readings or spiritual quotes you connect with in the comment section. Monday 4th January through to Sunday 10th January. |
Carly (New York)
December 1
Daily Reflections
“SUGGESTED” STEPS
Our Twelfth Step also says that as a result of practicing
all the Steps, we have each found something called a
spiritual awakening. . . . A.A.’s manner of making ready
to receive this gift lies in the practice of the Twelve
Steps in our program.”
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 106-07
I remember my sponsor’s answer when I told him that the
Steps were “suggested.” He replied that they are
“suggested” in the same way that, if you were to jump
out of a airplane with a parachute, it is “suggested”
that you pull the ripcord to save your life. He pointed
out that it was “suggested” I practice the Twelve Steps,
if I wanted to save my life. So I try to remember daily
that I have a whole program of recovery based on all
Twelve of the “suggested” Steps.
Sheila
As Bill Sees It
Quantity or Quality, p. 11
“About this slip business–I would not be too discouraged. I think you
are suffering a great deal from a needless guilt. For some reason or
other, the Lord has laid out tougher paths for some of us, and I guess
you are treading one of them. God is not asking us to be successful. He
is only asking us to try to be. That, you surely are doing, and have been
doing. So I would not stay away from A.A. through any feeling of
discouragement or shame. It’s just the place you should be. Why don’t
you try just as a member? You don’t have to carry the whole A.A. on
your back, you know!
“It is not always the quantity of good things that you do, it is also the
quality that counts.
“Above all, take it one day at a time.”
Letter, 1958
Babs
NA Just For Today
Life’s Rewards
“We begin to pray only for God’s will for us. That way, we get only what we are capable of handling.”
Basic Text pg. 47
Imagine what might happen if God gave us everything we wanted. A fabulous new car, straight A’s, a triple salary raise – all ours without effort, just for the asking.
Now imagine the problems that come along with unearned riches, new luxury cars, and unmerited scholastic recognition. What would we do with a huge salary raise that had been granted for no reason? How would we handle our new financial responsibilities? And how would we live up to that raise? Could we ever make it appear that we deserve such pay when we know we don’t?
What about that fantastic new car? Most come with expensive insurance premiums and hefty maintenance costs. Are we prepared to care for what we’ve asked for?
Academic honors? Could we perform like A students after we’d been given high marks we hadn’t earned? What would we do if we were exposed as frauds?
When we talk to God, we need to remember that we live in the real world. We earn rewards and learn to handle them as we do. Confining our prayers to requests for knowledge of God’s will, the power to carry it out, and the ability to live with the consequences will ensure that we get no more than we can handle.
Just for today: I will pray only for knowledge of God’s will and the power to carry that out in the real world.
Georgie Girl xx
Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
People who had a slip are ashamed of themselves–sometimes so ashamed that they fear to go back to A.A. They develop the old inferiority complex and tell themselves that they are no good, that they are hopeless, and that they can never make it. This state of mind is perhaps worse than it was originally. They have probably been somewhat weakened by their slip. But their A.A. training cannot ever be entirely lost. They always know they can go back if they want to. They know there is still God’s help for them if they will again ask for it. Do I believe that I can never entirely lose what I have learned in A.A.?
Meditation For The Day
Nobody entirely escapes temptation. You must expect it and be ready for it when it comes. None of us is entirely safe. You must try to keep your defenses up by daily thought and prayer. That is why we have these daily meditations. You must be able to recognize temptation when it comes. The first step toward conquering temptation always is to see it clearly as temptation and not to harbor it in your mind. Dissociate yourself from it, put it out of your mind as soon as it appears. Do not think of excuses for yielding to it. Turn at once to the Higher Power for help.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may be prepared for whatever temptation may come to me. I pray that I may see it clearly and avoid it with the help of God.
India
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Step Seven – “Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings. ”
For us, the process of gaining a new perspective was unbelievably painful. It was only by repeated humiliations that we were forced to learn something about humility. It was only at the end of a long road, marked by successive defeats and humiliations, and the final crushing of our self sufficiency, that we began to feel humility as something more than a condition of groveling despair. Every newcomer in Alcoholics Anonymous is told, and soon realizes for himself, that his humble admission of powerlessness over alcohol is his first step toward liberation from its paralyzing grip.
pp. 72-73
Sheila
January 4
Daily Reflections
BEGIN WHERE YOU ARE
We feel that elimination of our drinking is but a
beginning. A much more important demonstration of our
principles lies before us in our respective homes,
occupations and affairs.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.19
It’s usually pretty easy for me to be pleasant to the
people in an A.A. setting. While I’m working to stay
sober, I’m celebrating with my fellow A.A.s our common
release from the hell of drinking. It’s often not so
hard to spread glad tidings to my old and new friends
in the program. At home or at work, though, it can be
a difference story. It is in situations arising in
both of those areas that the little day-to-day
frustrations are most evident, and where it can be
tough to smile or reach out with a kind word or an
attentive ear. It’s outside of the A.A. rooms that
I face the real test of the effectiveness of my walk
through A.A.’s Twelve Steps.
Suzy :) Just for today
NA Just For Today
January 4
The Love of the Fellowship
“Today secure in the love of the fellowship, we can finally look another human being in the eye and be grateful for who we are.”
Basic Text p. 89
When we were using, few of us could tolerate looking someone in the eye-we were ashamed of who we were. Our minds were not occupied with anything decent or healthy, and we knew it. Our time, money, and energy weren’t spent building loving relationships, sharing with others, or seeking to better our communities. We were trapped in a spiral of obsession and compulsion that went only in one direction: downward.
In recovery, our journey down that spiral path has been cut short. But what is it that has turned us around, drawing us back upward into the open spaces of the wide, free world? The love of the fellowship has done this.
In the company of other addicts, we knew we would not be rejected. By the example of other addicts, we were shown how to begin taking a positive part in the life around us. When we were unsure which way to turn, when we stumbled, when we had to correct a wrong we had done, we knew our fellow members were there to encourage us.
Slowly, we’ve gotten the feel of our freedom. No longer are we locked up in our disease; we are free to build and grow and share along with everyone else. And when we need support to take our next step, it is there. The security we’ve found in the love of the fellowship has made our new lives possible.
Just for today: I can look anyone in the eye without shame. I am grateful for the loving support that has made this possible.
California Colin :)
Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
Keeping sober is the most important thing in my life.
The most important decision I ever made was my decision
to give up drinking. I am convinced that my whole life
depends on not taking that first drink. Nothing in the
world is as important to me as my own sobriety. Everything
I have, my whole life depends on that one thing. Can I afford
ever to forget this, even for one minute?
Meditation For The Day
I will discipline myself. I will do this disciplining now.
I will turn out all useless thoughts. I know that the
goodness of my life is a necessary foundation for its
usefulness. I will welcome this training, for without it
God cannot give me his power. I believe that this power
is a mighty power when used in the right way.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may face and accept whatever discipline is
necessary. I pray that I may be fit to receive God’s power
in my life.
Nancy :)
Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
We have definitely left that dream world behind. It was
only a sham. It was a world of our own making and it was
not the real world. We are sorry for the past, yes, but we
learned a lot from it. We can put it down to experience, as
we see it now, because it has given us the knowledge necessary
to face the world as it really is. We had to become alcoholics
in order to find the A.A. program. We would not have got
it any other way. In a way, it was worth it. Do I look at my
past as valuable experience?
Meditation For The Day
Shed peace, not discord, wherever you go. Try to be part
of the cure of every situation, not part of the problem.
Try to ignore evil, rather than to actively combat it.
Always try to build up, never to tear down. Show others
by your example that happiness comes from living the
right way. The power of your example is greater than the
power of what you say.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may try to bring something good into every
situation today. I pray that I may be constructive in the
way I think and speak and act today.
Nancy :)
December 26
Daily Reflections
ACCEPTING SUCCESS OR FAILURE
Furthermore, how shall we come to terms with seeming
failure or success? Can we now accept and adjust to
either without despair or pride? Can we accept poverty,
sickness, loneliness, and bereavement with courage and
serenity? Can we steadfastly content ourselves with the
humbler, yet sometimes more durable, satisfactions when
the brighter, more glittering achievements are denied
us?
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 112
After I found A.A. and stopped drinking, it took a
while before I understood why the First Step contained
two parts: my powerlessness over alcohol and my life’s
unmanageability. In the same way, I believed for a
long time that, in order to be in tune with the Twelve
Steps, it was enough for me “to carry this message to
alcoholics.” That was rushing things. I was forgetting
that there were a total of Twelve Steps and that the
Twelfth Step also had more than one part. Eventually
I learned that it was necessary for me to “practice
these principles” in all areas of my life. In working
all the Steps thoroughly, I not only stay sober and
help someone else to achieve sobriety, but also I
transform my difficulty with living into a joy of
living.
Terence
December 10
Daily Reflections
CARRYING THE MESSAGE
Now, what about the rest of the Twelfth Step? The
wonderful energy it releases and the eager action by
which it carries our message to the next suffering
alcoholic and which finally translates the Twelve Steps
into action upon all our affairs is the payoff, the
magnificent reality, of Alcoholics Anonymous.
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 109
To renounce the alcoholic world is not to abandon it,
but to act upon principles I have come to love and
cherish, and to restore in others who still suffer the
serenity I have come to know. When I am truly committed
to this purpose, it matters little what clothes I wear
or how I make a living. My task is to carry the message,
and to lead by example, not design.
Manuel :)
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Step Six – “Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.”
If we ask, God will certainly forgive our derelictions. But in no case does He render us white as snow and keep us that way without our cooperation. That is something we are supposed to be willing to work toward ourselves. He asks only that we try as best we know how to make progress in the building of character.
p. 65
Bobbie
Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
Many alcoholics will be saying today: “This is a good
Christmas for me.” They will be looking back over the
past Christmases which were not like this one. They
will be thanking God for their sobriety and their new
found life. They will be thinking about how their
lives have changed when they came into A.A. They will
be thinking that perhaps God let them live through all
the hazards of their drinking careers, when they were
perhaps often close to death, in order that they may
be used by Him in the great work of A.A. Is this a happy
Christmas for me?
Meditation For The Day
The kingdom of heaven is also for the lowly, the
sinners, the repentant. “And they presented unto him
gifts–gold, frankincense, and myrrh.” Bring your gifts
of gold–your money and material possessions. Bring
your frankincense–the consecration of your life to a
worthy cause. Bring your myrrh–your sympathy and
understanding and help. Lay them all at the feet of
God and let Him have full use of them.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may be truly thankful on this Christmas day.
I pray that I may bring my gifts and lay them on the altar.